Addiction Recovery Process
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The addiction
recovery process is a paradox, in that, in some ways it is
the same for everyone and in other ways, each person's journey
is unique. And, as a process, recovery cannot be put on a
timeline.
This
idea frustrates many who first go down the road to recovery
who want to know how many days this phase or that phase may
take. If addiction recovery were a procedure, one may be able
to build an MS Project timeline for it, but since it's a process
no such timeline can be built.
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The addiction recovery process involves five broad steps including
giving up denial, seeking help, going through detoxification, working
the recovery program and maintaining sobriety.
The first step in the recovery process is breaking through the
denial in addiction. The
substance abuser has to acknowledge that they do indeed have a problem
and are out-of-control when it comes to dealing with the problem.
Many times, there is a precipitating event that will help get the
addict out of denial such as a DUI (DWI in some states), accident,
death of a friend or family member from similar causes, or an intervention
with family and friends.
Steps
to Healing
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Once the person abusing drugs or alcohol has admitted to themselves
that there is a problem, the next step is that they addict has to
be motivated enough to take action. If the person simply admits
they have a problem but is not motivated enough to make a change,
the chances for recovery are nil.
Now, once the person admits they have an addiction and are
willing to take action to make a change, the next step is
to seek help. This help could be in the form of an alcohol
or drug rehab program,
from a group such as a 12-step group, even through their employee
assistance program or through their church. Some will go straight
into individual counseling as well. There are many avenues
in which to seek help and this is part of the "individual"
nature of addiction that is also share by many.
No matter which avenue is chosen to begin with, one of the
next steps to recovery is to stop using and start going through
the withdrawal process. The substance abuser many wish to
check into a detox
rehab center in order to safely facilitate this process
as the process itself may be fatal for severe addicts or for
those with other serious medical problems.
Depending upon the severity of the drug or alcohol problem,
the person's age, the length of the addiction and general
temperament of the substance abuser they may wish to next
seek help in an inpatient,
outpatient
or residential
rehab center to continue the recovery process. Most of
these rehab centers also offer detoxification programs onsite.
For only moderately severe cases of addiction, the addict
may want to try recover through other means such as individual
therapy and a 12-step program or other addiction group.
The recovery process if fraught with pitfalls and unrealistic
expectations. For instance, many of the same thoughts, beliefs,
patterns, cravings, feelings and behavior tend to happen over
and over again through the recovery process. Those in recovery
from substance abuse need to have realistic expectations about
these recurring themes in the road to recovery. Denial will
come and go and relapses are common even though the addict
is headed in the right direction.
Minimizing contact with enablers and toxic people will be
another step in the road to recovery as will building a healthier
support group and finding healthier substitutes for the addiction.
For instance, when some people feel the cravings for their
drugs of choice, they may want to choose a healthy substitute
such as exercise, meditation, prayer or some other activity
that will help until the cravings go away.
Addicts may need many services such as medical, psychological,
individual therapy, group therapy, 12-step or 12-step alternative
groups, employee assistance, legal assistance, transportation
and emotional support from family and friends in order to
gain and maintain their sobriety. Once the addict has developed
a new, healthier support system, as has some time in recovery
under their belts, they may need additional community support
and /or may wish to help their own sobriety by helping others
through religious groups or through activism and advocacy.
Most recovering addicts see sobriety as a lifelong process
that has to be worked every day, one day at a time, for as
long as they live. The benefits, however, far outweigh the
amount of effort put into an entire life of clean and sober
living.
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